Tuesday, February 10, 2015

Getting Fit: ABS

A while back, I went on a little research binge to learn everything I could about abs. One of my goals this year is getting my stomach back in shape! They haven't *fully* recovered from having a baby.... um, 5 years ago... and I think it's about time that I quit procrastinating. I've never really been confident about my tummy so I'm more determined than ever to get the six pack I've always dreamed of!

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We'll start off with a little bit about mommy bellies: 

"... Crunches only target one of several ab muscles — primarily the Rectus Abdominus (your six pack muscles) which is one of the most overstretched muscle groups during pregnancy and your obliques. These muscles easily overpower the weaker internal abdominal muscle (the Transverse Abdominus) during crunch-like exercises which can cause your abdominal wall to bulge out!

The secret to flattening your post baby mommy belly is….
work from the inside out.

In addition to cleaning up what you eat, your focus must be on rebuilding strength and control of your Transverse Abdominus – your deepest core muscle. This muscle compresses the abdominal wall, acts like a corset, draws the belly button closer to the spine and is the body’s most important core stabilizer.


Effective Post Baby Core Exercises include: 
The “drawing in” maneuver – You can lie on your back, on your side or get on all fours – contract and hold your deep core muscles as you imagine drawing your belly button in toward your spine – and hold for count of 10 as you breathe.

Here’s a Mommy Belly Makeover Video that demonstrates How To Get Started with your post baby core exercises:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zd3rGZ1ki9E

Plank variations which are most effective when you perform sets of 10-second holds with a brief rest between sets instead of holding for 30-60+ seconds at a time."


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So after a ton of digging, this is pretty much what I've found across the board: the transverse abdominals are where it's at ya'll! 

Here are some great exercises for those Transverse Abdominals: 

Planks 
Scissor kicks 
Spidermans 
Squats

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Midriff Makeover - interesting tips to help bring in that belly! 

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Do you have swayback causing you to have a pooch? Here is a demonstration on how to do the hip flexor stretch to get rid of it

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"Crunches, sit-ups, oblique twists. Surprisingly, many of these hard-core ab exercises still pop up in postpartum ab workouts. The emphasis is on getting rid of the mummy tummy, yet the approach does exactly the opposite.

Any exercise that jack-knifes the body increases intra abdominal pressure. If your midline is not strong enough to start with, these exercises can hinder or reverse the healing of diastasis recti. You’ll know if the exercise is ‘wrong’, your stomach will dome as you attempt it. Which is basically your innards playing peek-a-boo through the weakened midline (nice!).

If that’s you, your diastasis is not going to improve, and your belly is not going to get flat, while you continue to do this type of exercise. So please stop!" -source

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"The fibers of this muscle run horizontally around the abdomen and works as a girdle or belt. Hence the nickname for the transversus abdominis of the "corset muscle".

The primary function of this muscle is to compress the ribs and viscera, stabilizing the pelvis and spine. The TrA will help prevent a protruding belly. Basically, it helps hold the stomach in.

While achieving achieving a flatter belly is one of the benefits of strengthening the muscle, preventing lower back injury is a greater benefit." -Source 

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Some more knowledge (pretty much what everything else says) combined with a few hardcore stomach exercises: 

"While the rectus abdominis muscle responds to strengthening exercises by developing outward, the transverse abdominis muscle develops inward and in effect, as mentioned earlier, is analogous to tightening your belt or wearing a muscular girdle. It is like the Spanx of the abdominal muscles!

So, regardless of your current body fat percentage, developing the transverse abdominis muscle will aid in flattening your tummy and will ultimately help you feel better in your clothes. For those who have a lesser body fat percentage, a developed TVA muscle will create excellent definition and frame around your stomach so that you will look and feel better without looking bulky or too muscular." -Source 

The muscle fibers of the Rectus Abdominus (the six-pack abs) run VERTICALLY on your body, starting at your rib cage and attaching down on your pelvis, just like if you were looping the tenser bandage over your shoulder and between your legs.

You can work them like crazy and even develop that six-pack, but you WON'T get that completely tight waist and flat stomach you're looking for because the muscle fibers would have to run horizontally AROUND your body in order bring your waist in and tighten it up.

The solution, like I mentioned above, is to work the muscles that are designed for the job: the deep muscles of the core that are have fibers that run AROUND your waist... these are called the Transverse Abdominus and the Obliques.

And I'm going to teach you exercises that DIRECTLY target these often-ignored deep muscles to cinch up your midsection and give you that tight, wasp waist that crunches haven't given you and never will.

To actually achieve the goals of a flat stomach, a tight waist and a better six-pack, you need exercises that DON'T make your midsection look WORSE. You need exercises that properly target and train the abdominals.

One of the keys to developing the "six-pack" muscles of the abs and getting that washboard look is achieving a FULL contraction through body position...in this case, you'll be bent in half.

That body position puts your frontal abdominal wall in it's most anatomically-possible contracted state.

The other key is to use the abs to PUSH, not to pull, as regular crunches do. This pushing uses the abs differently and will actually make those little blocks of muscle pop more, giving you that washboard look, rather than the flat, undefined look that regular crunches give.



I've got a lower abdominal exercise that works like a vacuum to draw your abdominal wall up and in WHILE you're doing something that LOOKS like a leg raise (but isn't a leg raise). This combination movement FORCES your lower ab muscle fibers to tighten up and FAST.

Can you really truly isolate the lower abs? There is a lot of debate about that...when you have an exercise like this, the academic debate doesn't matter...it's the RESULTS that matter.


Remember what I said above about weighted side bends pushing out the love handles to make you look fatter? I've got an easy exercise that will target and tighten the "love handle" areas directly, making them look smaller within DAYS.

The exercise doesn't reduce the fat itself...NO ab exercise is going to do that. It works to tighten up the muscles directly UNDERNEATH the fat, which pulls it in, making it smaller in a very short period of time (and I'm not kidding when I say it's a matter of days).

I've also got some great "anti-rotational" exercises for you as well, where you actively RESIST rotation in order to work the deep muscles of the core...









To increase abdominal stability, you will be holding your breath during parts of this movement. As you start to lower yourself down, inhale. Begin holding your breath just below the halfway point of the squat as you come down to the bottom position. Continue to hold it until you're about 1/4 to 1/2 of the way back up.

If you don't want to or are unable to hold your breath, exhale through pursed lips (as though you're blowing up a balloon). Keeping the breath held towards the bottom will maximize core stability and allow your abs to function more effectively during the movement.

That being said, if you DO feel lightheaded at any point in the exercise, rack the bar and rest. Always use your best judgement here. The idea is to work yourself in a SAFE manner.

With this exercise, having the resistance in front of the body (similar to when you're doing a front squat but with even LESS skeletal support) allows you to keep a more vertical body position while putting tremendous tension on the entire abdominal area. "

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I am following the bikini body guide but I love throwing in a few extra ab workouts each week. I know I'm starting off with a pretty weak core so I try to work in a little extra to help build it back up! Plus it helps to know which ones will help you to do what. I know I need to work on my core strength so I do exercises like the ones above that will help me build my transverse abdominals. And I think it's just nice to be informed. Growing up I thought crunches were the best way to get abs and I wasted sooo much time doing hundreds and hundreds of them! I wish I would have known then, what I do now. But that is the beauty of the internet, so much information at your fingertips! 

Hope you guys are having a fantastic Tuesday! I'm going to go get my six pack on! 

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Monday, February 9, 2015

Vegan Potato Nachos // Homemade Salsa

GUYS, I've found my newest favorite meal. VEGAN. POTATO. NACHOS. Ahhhh, they are so delicious. Like all of my favorite foods combined! 

For some reason, I've had potatoes on the mind, non-stop, for the past week (is that the p.m.s?) sooooo we've been eating a lot of potatoes. But no complaints here! And I've actually had this specific meal like 3 times in a row (it's that good!) so I figured it's about time I shared this wonderful, tasty goodness!  photo 2 (19)
It's basically nachos but instead of using chips (boooo), you use baked potatoes (ya!). And just like that, it's healthified! Then I loaded them up with all of the typical nacho-y goodness.

I used: 
-Baked Potato Chips (you can bake them like medallions or just do regular fries, both are great)
-Spinach and/or lettuce
-Guacamole (avocados, lemon juice, cumin, salt)
-Black beans/corn/taco seasoning mix, mmmm
-Vegan Sour Cream (recipe below)
-Salsa (recipe below)
-Black Olives

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SALSA 
1 clove of garlic 
1/2 onion 
4 roma tomatoes (2 cups)
1/2 cup cilantro
1/2 lemon or 1 tbs 
1 tbsp coconut sugar
1 tsp apple cider vinegar 
1 tsp salt 
1 tsp cumin
2-4 jalapenos or 1/4 cup tabasco
-Process all ingredients in food processor. I suggest doing the onions, garlic, and peppers first and then adding the rest (to make sure you don't get giant chunks of onion or pepper!). 

VEGAN SOUR CREAM 
1 cup cashews (preferable soaked for an hour or overnight) 
1/2 cup-3/4 cup water 
2 tsp lemon juice (I used about 1/2 a lemon) 
1 tsp acv 
pinch of salt 
1 tbsp nutritional yeast 
-Blend all ingredients in a blender for maximum creamy-ness

I taste tested it and decided to add a splash more of lemon juice and acv, giving it a little more "sour" to the cream! 



So this meal is kinda fatty with all the nuts, avocado, and olives. BUT it's the good kinds of fat and it's still loaded with tons of yummy veggies. So while it's still healthy, I wouldn't be eating this every night of the week. But it is a wonderfully tasty alternative to regular nachos! And animal cruelty free! Wahoo! 

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Sunday, February 8, 2015

Film 2

This roll was from a road trip my brother and I took to San Marcos over the past summer. The first day we got there, we went to a special spot on the river. It was magical 
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Can you see my brother up in that tree? 
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Mm so pretty, this really makes me miss summer. 
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Flips, cause he's so cool
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On the way back home, our main mission was to find a blue bonnet patch to frolic in. 
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I would say it was a success. 
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Brandon took the next few around Houston. I just thought they were neat
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And here's a throwback! Two from our prom film! 
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For those that don't know, I got pregnant my senior year of high school so when prom came around I was about 6/7 months pregnant (and huge as you can tell). Oh and I made that dress. I am always impressed when I look back at these pictures. 
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Prom was a terrible night for me but I really love these two pictures. These were taken right before we arrived, we went to this park downtown with that really scenic waterfall to do a mini photo sesh before the actual dance. It was the best part of that evening. 
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Saturday, February 7, 2015

Film 1

Over the holidays I went on a little film kick. The first thing I did was develop a few rolls of film I found laying around. Most are a few years old, I even found one from my PROM in 2009! Crazy. Here are a few from the first one I developed when Eliza was about two. 
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This must have been right before we started building the tiny home. 
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We used to play tennis a lot, I don't know why I was laying down? 
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The rest of these are from a scavenger hunt we did. I don't remember the topics but they're the motivation behind some of these weird ones. Like the toilet paper one, I think it was "something soft". The toilet paper must have been Brandon's idea. 
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In Galveston, the beach we live by, they have these art pelicans everywhere. Kinda fun. 
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And this was our last scavenger hunt one. I wish I could remember the clue but we ran into a Double Dave's Pizza shop, set Eliza down to take this picture and then ran out! 


I love the character film adds to pictures. None of these have any filter on them whatsoever. I haven't touched them editing wise, they just look neat on their own (: 

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Friday, February 6, 2015

A Few Things: Moving Forward, Being Grateful, Letting Go

Ah guys, the last few days have been kind of crazy for me. It's that time of the month where my hormones go absolutely ballistic and it's been hectic to say the least. It's a blessing and a curse for sure. Even when I know it's coming, it somehow always takes me by surprise. It definitely happens for a reason though, not saying that I necessarily enjoy the process but when I'm uncontrollably emotional like that, I tend to blow things up, figuratively speaking. But in most cases it's for the best, usually it's issues that I have suppressed in some way or another that need to come out regardless. Does this ever happen to you? I try not to make it a negative thing, generally it all ends up ok... if you look at it the right way. I mean, the matter in which they happen is usually not the most ideal... But whatever, I've just learned to go with it. And also, to take some time away from people so I can focus on myself. Most often than not, it's an issue I have with myself so most of the time it's more worthwhile to (avoid going off on people) just stick to my thoughts and work it out from the inside. 
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Speaking of thoughts! 

I've been thinking a lot about how to move forward and how to deal with specific obstacles and their purpose in my life right now. And something occurred to me. My biggest set back over the last few months has been that I kind of forgot where I was going with all of this (my life I mean). I've been traveling down this road for a while, and it's been a really long, challenging journey. And I guess at some point I just got tired of trudging forward so I wondered off into the wilderness and got lost. I had gotten so used to the place I was in, that I forgot where I was going and where I had come from. And while I still have some bitter feelings about about some of the things that have happened (I'm working on it), I think having to defend myself, defend my way of living, and defend why I (purposefully and consciously) do everything I do, forcefully reminded me of where my passions lie. It kind of jolted me back onto this path that I'm supposed to be on and helped me find my fire again. Who woulda thought. But it really made me take a step back and appreciate all of the steps we've taken to get here. And it was kind of an "ah ha!" moment for me. I've been so accustomed to our way of life that I forget that we didn't always used to be like this. It took us a long time and a lot of effort and struggles to get to here. And I got a little reminiscent about things.

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Three years ago, we were living in an apartment that I filled with so. much. stuff. I mean I suppose it could have definitely been worse but it was still a lot of stuff that we didn't need. We were also not eating too great and not taking the best care of our bodies, our selves, and our lives. I'm not sure exactly how the change started or when it did but I think the main catalyst for the change was knowledge, learning. Be it from school or the internet, somehow it donned on us that there was a better way to live and we wanted it! So we started to minimize and got rid of things we didn't need, we also started eating cleaner/less processed food, and made efforts to get rid of the toxins in our homes. Basically, we just started questioning everything we did/used/consumed so that we could get the most out of life. And then one crazy year (2013 to be exact) we took a huge leap to reflect this change. I completely changed my business from fashion to healing body products, Brandon quit his job, and we had this crazy idea to build our own tiny home. It's so bizarre to think that we didn't always live this way or think this way but I think it's very important to remember, you know? I mean there was a time when my struggle was to find an all natural shampoo to clean my hair. Or when we were first learning how to recycle stuff or how we could incorporate essential oils into our lies. I have to remember that I've worked really hard to get here so that I can fully appreciate what an accomplishment it is. We've grown so much, expanded our consciousness and knowledge and overall well being. But I never allow myself the time or energy to take a moment to just be proud. Of myself, of Brandon, of Eliza, of all of us. I am so guilty of wanting to be better, wanting to do better that I forget to be proud of where I'm at. I guess that's the perfectionist in me. 

A quote I read the other day: 
It’s about being spectacular by just being who you are. 

I guess I am just fully realizing my perfectionist tendencies and trying to learn to let things be beautiful as they are, without having to meticulously spot out every error or imperfection or how something could be better. It gets very overwhelming to be in that state of mind, but I'm working on it. And because there's always a reason to be grateful, I wanted to take a moment to be proud of our tiny home. I struggle a lot with being satisfied with the condition of this space. When people ask us if our house is "finished" I reply with a hesitant "Yes?" because in my mind there is still so much to be done. When I get overwhelmed, I tend to go into minimalist mode and just start getting rid of stuff. But somehow, we always find things to fill the once empty spaces. And somehow, no matter how much I clean, it always ends up messy again. So I want to take a moment to appreciate it despite the chaos that is our house. Because at least it's ours. 

Things I am grateful for: 
- Messy dishes, because they are beautiful (even when they're messy) and I get to fill them with yummy, delicious food that nourishes our bodies
- Hamper full of dirty laundry, because we have warm, fitting, good-looking clothes to wear every single day
- My unmade bed because it's one of my favorite places to be 
- My cluttered loft because it's full of wonderful books and movies and pictures and journals to keep us occupied 
- My bath tub filled with our recycling because we have the opportunity to not waste these precious materials, even if it means I have to skip a bath
- My unkempt "pantry" because it is full of delicious things to feed my family every night
- My disordered living room because it is so versatile and useful. From yoga studio to office to game room to storage area, it's a million places all at once and you can definitely tell!
- My always messy kitchen table because it is a place where we can come together as a family at night and eat our dinner
- Eliza's room which is always in a constant state of disarray but it's a place that she can mess up and play and sleep and have all to her self 
- Our moldy windows because they connect us with the outside and let the sun shine in, I'll keep working on that moisture problem
- Random socks on the floor, because they keep our toesies warm 
- Our dirty floor, because it's so easy to clean even if I have to do it every other day 
- Those clean clothes that have been sitting in the laundry basket for days.... at least they're clean! 
- The filled to the brim bag of trash that is waiting for me to dump, because it's so small and easy to take care of 
- Our white but almost never visible carpet because it's exactly what I always wanted! 
- My tiny home, it's not perfect and never will be but it's all mine... I mean ours. It's all ours (: 
Inspirational Life Quote, Rumi
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I guess in the midst of all of this, I have to remember why I am here, how I got here, and where I was before. Even though it's good to look towards the future, it is also important to remember your past. I built this tiny home because I wanted a place of my own. I designed it to splendidly accommodate our little family of three. I love it because it is not infested with roaches. But it's not perfect, I still have a 5 year old that destroys everything and a man child that casually throws his things everywhere. I guess I just have to learn to be ok with the clutter. And as much as I hate to admit it, it's probably more of a metaphor for other areas of my life as well. 

I've been learning a lot about patience lately, a lot about letting go of the control freak in me, and trying to accept things the way they are even if I am working towards a better future. I guess it's just the balance I need to find, it's a struggle though. I guess that's where the appreciation and gratefulness comes in though. When you have ability to be grateful for something despite it's imperfections, maybe only then can it truly become what you always wanted. 
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Thursday, February 5, 2015

Sam Wish // Valentine's Day Gift Sets

Valentine's day is coming up ya'll and I'm so happy to have actually put together a few special gift sets just for this special occasion! Every year when Valentine's Day comes around, I always have ideas and plans for Sam Wish to do something like this but always end up too busy to make it happen. But this year, I just went for it and am so happy with how cute they all came out! So if you're looking for a gift for someone special or know anyone that is, please check out these wonderful (and affordable!) gift sets that I created! 
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Valentine's Day Spa Gift Set // Small // $10
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Valentine's Day Spa Gift Set // Medium // $20 
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Complete Spa Gift Set // Large // $36
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Valentine's Day Spa Gift Set // XSmall // $6
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Valentine's Day Gift Set // Face Serum & Perfume Sample Pack // $20
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Lip Balm Gift Set // Choose 3! // $10
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